The author of Reclaiming Conversation, Sherry Turkle does not condemn the use of modern technology. In fact, the author is quite adamant that mobile devices have done much to improve the learning and connecting that we do now as a society.
Currently with the pandemic, we all have had to adjust to communicating virtually more than we probably used to. Meetings with colleagues at work, celebrations with families, and many other occasions have required conversing using mobile devices. However, the heart of this book focuses on the real need to have face to face conversations. If we don't, we stand to lose the ability to empathize with each other.
Studies show that as a society, we are becoming addicted to our mobile devices.
So, while we need to use our mobile devices, it is wise to keep our use in check and whenever possible,
have those important conversations when you can look your friends in the eyes and say what you need to say.
Dr. Susan Weinschenk explains this process clearly:
“With the internet, twitter, and texting you now have almost instant gratification of your desire to seek. Want to talk to someone right away? Send a text and they respond in a few seconds. Want to look up some information? Just type your request into google… It’s easy to get in a dopamine induced loop. Dopamine starts you seeking, then you get rewarded for the seeking which makes you seek more. It becomes harder and harder to stop looking at email, stop texting, or stop checking your cell phone to see if you have a message or a new text.”
I read Sherry Turkle's other book, "Alone Together". I agree that Turkle does not disapprove of technology. She sees the importance of technology to connect people. She also thinks that people need to focus on having conversations without technology.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your connection to the current pandemic. It is extremely difficult to have face to face conversations when you're at home, in virtual meetings, and social distancing. However, we can choose to take time to speak with each other via FaceTime or Zoom. That's probably not what Turkle meant, but in the time of a global pandemic, that's the best we've got.
I thought the same when reading Turkle's book; she doesn't condemn but calls for us to reflect on our use of technology. I saw that Riana brought up the pandemic, and my current question would be how to move past the idea that technology can't foster empathy and think of how can we teach empathy using technology? We'll have to start doing that this upcoming year...
ReplyDeleteI always thought that digital communications were completely fine, until the pandemic. I noticed that my kids were in terrible moods, even with access to phones and extra screen time. What really made a difference was their ability to play board games on zoom with their grandparents. They could see their faces and have more meaningful interactions.
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